feminist little me!

Pornography has clearly become something that is so common nowadays, it's even become accepted by many. Guys wouldn't be normal if they don't own a porn collection or have never surfed porn. Women too are venturing into the X-rated zone that was once deemed disgusting, believe me. Many, many women. I've got girlfriends who actually rip their mates' porn collections for their own viewing [but i'm convinced none of them takes things further when watching] and for pure amusement. I can understand the whole 'perversion' thing, I really do. But only when you're single.

The other day I got to thinking, how can someone ever watch porn together with their partners to stimulate themselves? I know this is kind of gross but seriously, how can they? When you're single, watching 'P*ssy Star Wars' together with your friend(s) can certainly come off as funny and entertaining and gross at the same time, but at least it makes sense. But once attached, your mindset is bound to change completely. Somehow, somewhere along the line, porn becomes just plain sleazy, cheap recordings of random sexual activities that are carried out with no dignity nor respect. That is the hard truth.

The ones who can enjoy porn with their partners tend to be those who are extremely open about sex, obviously. Okay I know I'm giving you slabs of information you already know but I was just pointing out to make things really clear. So I thought about them and I thought of something that's so true, and so raw in any woman's heart that it'll be impossible to miss out on. How can any woman bear the thought of her man openly lusting at other naked women on x-rated videos when she knows that she has given him all of her soul and body to him? When she has stripped herself off of her dignity for him and given him everything? It says only of one thing: her man doesn't think she's enough and he thinks those porn actresses are hot with their ridiculous DD breasts. That ought to hurt any woman.

And those guys, gosh have they no shame? If I were a guy I would have enough brains to know that watching porn in front of their girlfriends, or even worse WITH their girlfriends is plain disrespectful, insensitive and definitely not a gentleman act. I'm just amazed at those girls who can bear the hurt of knowing that their men lust after other women who sell their bodies, but they satisfy their carnal appetite by utilizing their girlfriends' bodies. I mean, ouch, anyone? Personally I would be hurt of my boyfriend surfs porn when I'm not around, no matter how seldom it is. Because the act speaks for itself, he wants to perv at other girls' private parts, and THAT, speaks for itself. He doesn't want you. I think women have embraced sexual openness with a little too much more enthusiasm than needed, especially older women.

See the reason why I get so worked up with such issues is that I want women to not give away their self-respect in a bid to please their men. It's so depressing. We didn't have the feminist movement for nothing, afterall. We deserve so much more. I'm writing this to reach out to women all across the globe with the message that we should never, ever, let males and their dick-brains affect our self-worth, for we are not shallow. Okay, maybe I'm too carried away but I really feel strongly for this.

Ps. This entry is purely based on observations and is NOT personal. I promise.